Couple bang babysitter amia forum1/24/2024 ![]() ![]() ![]() They attend all the big events, and if there's a stripper pole in the room, you can bet they'll be the first ones on it. The orgy with this group came the second night (seriously, stop giggling). But even then, we soon realized that a get-together of swingers doesn't always end in a massive orgy. And when you throw in the strong likelihood that you're going to be exchanging fluids with them later on in the evening, then of course, you're going to be a bit more discriminating about who you're hanging out with.Īfter two hours of hapless attempts to make eye contact and smile, we finally met a group who welcomed us into their circle. People gravitate toward those they already know. We felt pretty awkward, but we soon realized that this is just natural human behavior. As we walked around, we noticed that everyone seemed to be hanging out in their own cliques. Everyone looked smoking hot, but we couldn't for the life of us figure out how to talk to anyone. ![]() The first night, we walked into the venue and saw a bunch of people dressed in the sexiest attire we could imagine (think Vegas nightclub, but without any rules about indecent exposure). Our fantasies were dashed pretty quickly. If I get lucky, I'll see you tomorrow, loser!" We didn't want to end up in a situation where one of us was like, "I'm bored. That led us to three years' worth of conversations about how far we were willing to go, what exactly we were looking for within the scene, and above all else, how we were in this together. And as we got more comfortable, we started being willing to do more. That was a welcome relief for us, especially after the pressure my wife had previously received from the aforementioned husband.Īs we met more and more couples who were understanding and patient, who were happy to stop the moment one of us hesitated, we realized that there are some truly good and decent people in the lifestyle. In fact, we soon realized the scene is all about asking before you initiate any sort of contact with someone. And perhaps most importantly, they never pressured us into doing anything we weren't ready for. The veteran couples we met at these mixers were always welcoming and more than willing to offer us advice on getting started. The wife was pretty ambivalent about me (probably because I'm just too awesome), and the husband was always a little more aggressive than my wife was ever comfortable with. Well, I should clarify: The flirting and contact came from only the husband. This couple was attracted to us, and they gradually revealed their interest via heavy flirting and questionably sexual contact whenever we'd hang out. We were first were introduced to the lifestyle by two married friends, whom we'd found out from common friends' gossip had an open relationship. Here's what we've learned in the several years now that we've been "in the lifestyle" (that's the more subtle term swingers prefer): 7 It Can Take Years Of Negotiating and also other swingers who happen to be covered in vanilla). Only a few close vanilla friends know what we're into ("vanilla" is the term swingers use to refer to anyone who isn't a swinger. Due to our conservative careers and even more conservative families, we keep our sexual practices to ourselves. No, we don't twirl and flip to music from the 1940s we meet other couples and have sex with each other's partners. My wife and I are a typical heterosexual couple, but we have a dirty secret: We're swingers. ![]()
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